November 2nd, 2017 was a very long, very difficult day. There are lots of ways to work through grief, through suffering. That first day was shock, then pain - blinding pain, then heartbreak. It was a whirlwind. But in the midst of all that, I was able to do a few wise things. Over the course of a month or so, these things have saved me, and I want to share what I've learned with you.